Ever since I can remember, fall has just been a feel good season for me. When I was a kid I’d help my grandmother decorate for Halloween and then go jump into huge piles of beautiful leaves that my grandfather had just finished racking up. The smell of those dead leaves, or if they were wet after it rained, is something I’m glad they’ve attempted to cram into a scented candle…somewhat successfully I might add. Scent is known to be strongly tied to memory and during the month of October that is why you’ll never see me in a down mood. I’m just consistently surrounded by smells I tie to great memories. Those leaves I mentioned, the smell of pumpkins carved or cooked, that odd smell artificial fog has, candy, fudge, apples, I could go on forever; it’s just a sensory overload!
Now I’m sure there are people who feel the same about winter, spring or summer, but there’s never a time of year that’s more heartwarming. Nothing beats sitting with your significant other and sipping some hot apple cider or a lovely Pumpkin Spice flavored drink. Maybe you travel with friends and see the beautiful and colorful foliage of the changing trees or possibly hold a big Halloween Party. You’ve got Thanksgiving, a time of joining with loved ones and pigging out in true American style and then shortly after Thanksgiving you have the most heartwarming holiday of all; Christmas (I know it’s technically in winter, but only by a few days, my argument is still valid!)
Now, when I'm asked why I like the season so much my usual stock answer is "the colder weather" because if I didn’t have that quick go-to answer I’d talk for hours (See: This Blog Post). Really though, despite all the reasons I've given above, I think it’s because this time of year was just ingrained in me as a child; if you think about it, it’s the best time of year to be a kid! Leaf pile jumping and dressing up in awesome costumes, candy collecting and candy eating, pumpkin carving and pumpkin eating. This is followed shortly by lots of good food which is then followed by more good food with presents!
Speaking of childhood memories, though, I'd have to say that If there’s some kind of advice I would give to anyone, some bit of wisdom, it would be to not take life so seriously. Hang on to those childish memories and the excitement you used to feel during this time of year. You might say “Hey, I’m not some immature loser!” To which I would respond: "You don't have to be and why are you so defensive? Also, how did you get in my house?" You see, I believe there’s a fine line between being immature and having an inner child. I won’t expound on my definitions of both, I’ll just tell you to not let go of things you’ve always loved but don’t let them define you either. Build on your experiences and your memories and always keep that childlike view of the world…then you’ll be who you are meant to be.
To speak truly, few adult persons can see nature. Most persons do not see the sun. At least they have a very superficial seeing. The sun illuminates only the eye of the man, but shines into the eye and heart of the child. The lover of nature is he whose inward and outward senses are still truly adjusted to each other; who has retained the spirit of infancy even into the era of manhood. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Till next time, kids…